My Story

I refuse to be the victim

As a 13 year old immigrant to rural United States amongst spur-wearing cowboys and more cows than people, I felt like a stranger in a strange land.

 I arrived to this new world with my parents and sister, two suitcases, a diagnosis of turrets syndrome and ADHD, a thick South African accent and little to no self-esteem. I stood out to put it mildly, and standing out was the LAST thing I wanted.

So, I decided to change. I changed my accent, I acted in ways that people who “fit in” acted and did activities “cool kids” did. I learned to adapt, make friends and fit into a box of belonging which is all I really sought after.

By the age of 16 and having moved to the second town/school, I had this “changing to fit in” game down to an art. The town was bigger and there were more “acts” to choose from so I quickly found my role and played it well. I am after all, someone who loves to do their best at what they choose to do. So I became the best at doing what it took to feel like I belonged, even if it meant forgetting my truest self! 

As we all know, this shit catches up to us and my soul was screaming! But the doctors called it clinical depression.

At 17 years old, I made a choice that has changed the course of my life. Because there lives within me someone who knows that there is something I can do internally to shift the way I feel and ultimately choose to thrive in this world without imposed limitations and pharmaceuticals.

And there began my sojourn which I am proudly still navigating, medication free, wildly in love with who I am, my life and the direction it continues to take. I am now a solo parent of two phenomenal beings, living in Mexico and supporting people all over the world to set themselves free from internal captivity of false beliefs and limitations.

I am free!  And, I love witnessing my clients

transforming themselves, their lives and thriving!